71 Things to Talk About With Your S.O. When You Feel Like You’ve Covered It All

Whether you’re hanging out almost every day after school or FaceTiming every night before bed or still in those early text exchanges, you may find yourself at some point struggling to find things to talk about with your S.O. or crush. Don’t worry, it’s totally normal. When your with your S.O. for a long time, you feel like you already know everything about them and the conversations can get repetitive: How were your classes today? What did you eat for dinner? What movie are you watching on Netflix tonight? Even if you're still getting to know each other, sometimes conversations can run dry or you can get nervous and blank on things to say. The problem isn’t that you’ve run out of things to talk about — you may just need some conversation starters to help.

Maybe you picture a long future with your partner and want to see if they feel the same, or just hope to spice up your next convo. Here, we’ve got tons of questions and conversation topics for you to use on your next FaceTime or date night with your S.O. With these questions, your chats will last long into the night and your relationship will feel stronger than ever.

Questions That Spark Fun Conversations

1. What’s the spiciest thing you’ve ever eaten?
2. What’s the best meal you’ve ever had?
3. What’s your favorite cheesy pickup line?
4. What would you do with a million dollars?
5. What’s your dream job?
6. What’s your least favorite chore?
7. If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?
8. What superpower would you want?
9. If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would buy?
10. If you could only eat one meal for the rest of your life, what would it be?
11. If you were trapped on an island and you could only bring three things with you, what would you take?
12. What’s your favorite movie ever?
13. Who would play you in a movie about your life, and what would the movie be called?
14. If you were offered three wishes, what would you ask for?
15. Are you a dog person or a cat person?
16. What’s your favorite ice cream flavor?
17. If you could have dinner with someone, living or dead, who would you invite and why?
18. Who is your role model?
19. What’s your idea of a perfect day?
20. What do you think you’d be TikTok famous for?
21. What’s one hobby or sport you’ve always wanted to try?
22. Is there a book that’s had a lasting impact on you?
23. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
24. If you could only study one subject for the rest of your life, what would it be?
25. What’s your zodiac sign?
26. What do you consider your best talent?
27. Who is your favorite musician and/or band of all time?

Personal Conversation Topics and Questions

1. When do you feel most confident?
2. What is your favorite thing about yourself?
3. Tell me about a time you did something that was outside of your comfort zone.
4. What do you want people to remember you for when you’re gone?
5. What’s your biggest fear?
6. What do you want out of life?
7. What’s one thing about you that most people don’t know, but you wish they did?
8. If you were given one week to live, what would you do?
9. What’s something about yourself that you want to work on?
10. What’s something you really regret?
11. What’s an achievement you’re really proud of?
12. If you could re-do a decision in your life, what decision would it be and why?
13. What is one thing you wish you were taught that you had to learn the hard way?
14. Do you have any insecurities?
15. How would you describe yourself in three words?
16. Who would you say is your best friend?
17. Have you ever experience a friendship breakup?
18. What is your love language?
19. How do you usually react to conflict?
20. What’s your favorite childhood memory?

Relationship-Based Conversation Topics and Questions

1. What is your best trait in a relationship?
2. What’s your worst trait in a relationship?
3. Do you see yourself settling down one day?
4. What did you learn about relationships from your parents?
5. Tell me about a couple you know who has what you consider to be the healthiest relationship.
6. What is one deal breaker for you in a relationship?
7. Do you considering kissing someone else to be cheating?
8. Do you consider flirting to be cheating?
9. Have you ever been cheated on?
10. Have you ever cheated?
11. Have you ever been in love?
12. How do you know when you’re in love?
13. Who was your first-ever crush?
14. Have you experienced heartbreak?
15. What have you learned from past relationships?
16. How did your last relationship end?
17. At what point did you realize you were in love with me?
18. What were your first impressions of me?
19. What is your favorite memory of us?
20. What makes you think of me?
21. What can I do to make you feel more loved in our relationship?
22. What is your favorite thing about us as a couple?
23. Is there anything you wish was different about our relationship?
24. Have you ever thought about the names of your future kids? If so, what would you name them?

Carolyn Twersky

Associate Editor

Carolyn Twersky is an associate editor for Seventeen covering celebrities, entertainment, politics, trends, and health. On her off time, she's probably watching Ru Paul's Drag Race, traversing NYC for the best donuts, or, most likely, enjoying time in her favorite place in the world: her bed.